Gen X parents feel the squeeze and it's not just about their financial future. A recent U.S. Bank survey shows that more than half of them (53%) are seriously worried their kids won't be able to stand on their own financially in adulthood. That's a big jump compared to parents, where about 37% share this concern. So, what's driving this growing anxiety among Gen X?

Feeling the Pinch: The "Sandwich Generation"

A lot of Gen X parents are part of the so-called "sandwich generation" - caught between taking care of their aging parents while still supporting their adult children. That's a lot to juggle, especially when you add rising costs for housing and health care. They're stretched thin and it's not just about paying the bills but also about their long-term financial security. Many are wondering if they'll be able to save enough for retirement while their kids still depend on them.

And it's not like Gen X has had it easy. This generation has been hit by economic bumps, from the dot-com bust to the Great Recession and rising inflation. For some, it feels like something pulls them back just when they start to get ahead. These setbacks might explain why they're worried their children could need more support than expected.

Talking Money: Financial Conversations Are Evolving

Gen X parents aren't just quietly stewing over their finances despite these concerns. They're talking more to their kids about money than previous generations ever did. The survey shows parents today are almost twice as likely to have regular conversations about finances, like investing in stocks and bonds, compared to what they experienced with their parents. More than 40% of them are also chatting with their kids about how to pick career paths that align with long-term financial goals.

It's clear that Gen X parents are trying to prepare their children for success - they just worry that it might not be enough.

Confidence ... But Still Concern

Here's the twist: even though Gen X parents are worried about their kids' financial future, they're not completely pessimistic. A solid 79% believe their kids have what it takes to manage their finances independently. And interestingly, 54% even think their kids could step up and take care of them financially if needed. So, there's a bit of confidence underneath all the concern.

The Bigger Picture

The survey also sheds light on some broader financial dynamics. For instance, Americans find it easier to talk about politics (68%) than to discuss personal finances (55%) with their parents. That's a pretty striking contrast! And while less than half of Americans (44%) seek financial advice from their parents, nearly half (48%) believe they may need to financially support their parents or in-laws in the future.

For Gen X parents, it's a balancing act. They're trying to prepare their kids for financial independence while grappling with their concerns about retirement and caring for their aging parents. It's a complex financial world out there and Gen X feels it from all sides.